By Dámaris Tenza – Sex Therapist, CBT & Gestalt Therapist, Holosomatic Energy Bodywork Facilitator
Trauma does not just exist in the mind, t is stored in the body. The weight of past experiences, emotional wounds, and stress embeds itself in muscles, tissues, and energy centers, often manifesting as chronic tension, numbness, or a disconnection from one’s own sensations.
Many people struggle to understand why they feel emotionally stuck or physically restricted, not realizing that these blockages are the result of years, sometimes decades, of suppressed emotions, unresolved pain, and protective mechanisms built to survive past traumas.
Tantric de-armouring massage is a profound therapeutic approach that facilitates the release of emotional, physical, and energetic blockages, helping individuals reconnect with their bodies, reclaim sensitivity, and experience deeper emotional freedom.
Understanding Tantric De-Armouring Massage
The practice of de-armouring dates back to Wilhelm Reich’s psychoanalytic research in the 1930s, where he introduced the concept of character armor. Reich observed that emotional repression directly influenced body posture, tension, and movement, leading to rigid patterns of holding, chronic stress, and suppressed energy flow.
Tantric de-armouring works by applying sustained deep pressure to specific points in the body, often called reactive points, where trauma and tension are stored. Unlike traditional massage, which focuses on muscle relaxation, this method works with the nervous system and energy body, releasing deeply held emotional imprints and restoring the body’s natural state of aliveness.
The result is a profound emotional reset. Some people experience waves of emotions, intense relief, or a newfound sense of lightness and connection after a session. Others feel physical shifts, as areas that once felt blocked become warm, tingly, and open again.
How Trauma is Stored in the Body
When we experience overwhelming emotions or pain, the body often locks these experiences into muscle tension, breath constriction, and energetic stagnation. Over time, this leads to patterns of numbness, physical discomfort, and a disconnection from pleasure and self-awareness.
Tantric de-armouring works to dissolve these energetic and physical barriers, allowing emotions to flow naturally again. By releasing deep-seated trauma, individuals can restore their capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and full-body presence.
What to Expect in a Tantric De-Armouring Session
Each session is personalized to the client’s emotional and energetic needs. The session begins with breathwork to relax the nervous system, followed by gentle but firm pressure applied to areas of stored tension. Unlike traditional deep-tissue massage, this approach requires stillness and presence, allowing the body to process and release what has been suppressed.
Some people experience emotional waves—crying, laughing, or shaking—as the body releases trauma. Others feel a deep sense of peace as tension melts away. Each journey is unique, but the common thread is a return to wholeness, vitality, and a greater connection to oneself.
The Healing Power of Tantric De-Armouring
This method is not just about trauma release; it is about reconnecting with your body in a way that feels safe, authentic, and liberating. Many who go through the process report feeling more alive, emotionally balanced, and open to deeper intimacy.
As a therapist, I have witnessed how this work transforms lives, allowing people to step out of old patterns and into a renewed sense of self and connection.
If you feel disconnected, emotionally blocked, or longing to experience deeper embodiment and healing, this journey is for you.
Start Your Healing Journey Today
At Intimystique, I offer:
- Private Tantric De-Armouring sessions tailored to your healing needs.
- Immersive retreats focused on bodywork, intimacy, and emotional reconnection.
- Couples sessions to restore trust, intimacy, and deep emotional connection.
Your body holds the wisdom to heal. Let’s unlock it together.
Dámaris Tenza
